Simple Guideposts To Build Up Successful Relationship
Saturday, December 13, 2008
How to build relationships in a way that brings out the best in all? In relationships we come across every sort of emotions - good or bad but few know how to manage the rough times. Here there are some simple laws that act as guideposts, helping us to prevent grave mistakes.
First law states that there is never a lack of relationships. The idea of the scarcity of love by too many person and persuading to cling to whoever comes their way leads them to get involved with the wrong person, or stay in a toxic relationship. It is important to realize that relationships are plentiful.
Second law states that it is important to know who you are and what you are looking for. It is of the utmost importance to respect yourself and sustain your own values, identity and goals because it is easy to get lost in a relationship, to become a pawn in someone else's world losing your own identity. A healthy relationship is recognition that both partners are equally valuable and share a common goal.
Third law states that be conscious and prudent while choosing your partner for a long term healthy relationship. Be aware of the repetition compulsion that arises due to the unconscious need of yours. Therefore it is suggested that you actively choose different places to go and make a point of choosing individuals who are different from the later.
Fourth law states that avoid being pretentious in your relationship. The plinth of any healthy and happy relationship is based on mutual respect and acceptance and open, honest, communication.
Fifth law states do not manipulate the person whom you love or care. It is important in a relationship that you accept the person as he/she is. If someone feels accepted, they can change themselves, if they want to make your job easy.
Sixth law states to differentiate between infatuation and real Love. Feeling happy, excited, possessive or dependent is simply infatuation, usually based upon fantasy that inevitably fade away with time and is always associated with struggle and pain whereas real love is not based simply upon feelings, which come and go, but on actions.
Seventh law states to focus on the positive points of others as well as yourself. The more we focus upon what is good in a person and let them know, the better result can be achieved.
The last law reveals that each relationship lasts for a certain time and in that period it is our duty to learn, from one another and when times come for departure thank the person and let goes without hesitation and this is the greatest art of relationships.
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posted by Brijesh @ 2:54 AM,
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Relaxing On First Date
Saturday, November 1, 2008

You’ve had your eye on her for weeks. She’s cute, smart, and funny and loves animals. She’s friendly and nice to everyone. You’ve talked over the water cooler about The Daily Show and the Colbert Report. You’ve been wondering if it’s time to take it to the next level.
Knowing that she broke up with a long-term boyfriend about 6 months ago, you don’t want to come on too strong. Gathering your courage, you suggest going out for pizza on Saturday afternoon. You’re happy when she accepts, and aggressor to meet you at the local pizza parlor.
You yourself are no stranger to break-ups; you’ve had a nasty break-up in your not too distant past, as well. Not wanting to scare her off or psych yourself out, you are happy with your choice of location and hope that she is too. Besides, if everything goes well, the pizza joint will be a good spot to look back on as “the first date” place.
One thing you really like about this restaurant is its casual atmosphere. An eclectic mix of music plays over the sound system --- sometimes it’s U2 and acoustic Beatles, other times it’s Kid Rock or even the Dixie Chicks. You never can tell.
They showcase local artists there, as well. Since you’ve been thinking about buying some, it will give you something to talk about should the conversation drag. And what’s more, they have plenty of customers. Young couples, retirees, gays, college students, skaters, and young professionals all love this place, so the people watching are good.
While waiting for your pie, you can sip a beer or a glass of wine and challenge your date to a relaxing game of air hockey. You can tell a lot about a person in the way they approach pool or air hockey tables. Will she hang back and let you make the first move? Will she be aggressive and competitive while still having fun?
It may sound crazy, but a good game of air hockey can really give you insight into a person’s makeup. You’ll learn fast that if she’s fiercely competitive, she may also insist on being right all the time. That may not be what you’re looking for.
If she’s timid and shy, she may be that way in other aspects of her life, and afraid to take chances. Unless you’re looking to mentor her, a tendency to downplay her playing abilities may indicate she’s in the market for someone who’s more of a father figure than a partner.
However, if she plays, laughs and has fun, she’s probably going to be the right girl for you. If she’s able to poke fun at her own mistakes, and doesn’t pout if you happen to win, you’ve chosen a girl who will at least be fun in the short term. Where you take it from here is completely up to you.
Labels: Dating Mistakes, Dating Rules, Dating Tips, Love Poems, Online Dating
posted by Brijesh @ 10:52 AM,
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Gentlemen and Dating
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
The majority of the people have their shares of the men who wanted something for something. Even with work, it became friendly with an owner who was to soon saying him that it could go very far with work, and then revealed to him with its door of apartment. She spoke to him, with the door, but did not let it enter. It became very hard nosed towards it then that but it still did not obtain at the first base. It transferred thereafter out of this position thus it should not have been subjected to him and its ‘comes-ons’.
Naturally the men want to have the sex all the times that and where they can, but that does not mean that the woman must agree. The various sizes or the shapes of the women do not make a man more or less ready, laid out and eager to have the sex. Whether you are well made or not, your type and personality of body attracts certain kinds of the types. If you already placed the rules of play, then should not have to you to worry about the man trying to obtain his share of your desserts after dining and a film.Labels: Dating Mistakes, Dating Proposal, Dating Relationship, Dating Rules, Love, Online Dating
posted by Brijesh @ 1:17 AM,
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First Date Mistakes
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
You get so excited about your first date that instead of making good impression on your date you just make a lot of mistakes. It's natural to worry about making a good impression on a date. So here are some common mistakes which people mostly makes on their first date it will help you to avoid mistakes.
Don't be Late First impression is last impression. If you reach late on your first date then you're really telling someone subconsciously that you don't really care about his or her time so try to be on time.
Don’t talks about yourself too much Avoid talking about yourself because it will let your date think that you are just full of yourself? Talk about something common between both of you.
Don't talk about your ex's It's natural for most people to bring up former relationships when they're on a first date, but you should limit the information you give to just the basics. Remember that the person you are about to meet isn't your ex. He or she is someone new that is taking time out of his or her busy day to meet with you so give them the full attention they deserve.
Avoid Sex Talk and Inappropriate topics The most common mistake which people usually make is talking about sex or something indecent. It will only serve to turn off your date. Keep the conversation to safer topics.
Talk about present You must enjoy the present situation so talk about your present plans. Remember the purpose of a first date is to find out if you like someone enough to see him or her again. That's it. You should not start thinking about future topics.
And in last if you make a mistake, just apologize to your date. If your date rejects you for your mistake, simply shrug it off. The right person will appreciate your goof ups as much as your perfect moments.
Labels: Dating Mistakes, Dating Proposal, Dating Relationship, Dating Rules, Love, Online Dating
posted by Brijesh @ 11:04 PM,
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Are you ready for your first kiss?
Monday, July 28, 2008
Or are you too scared? We all know the feeling of kissing that special someone for the first time.
It's nerve-racking and you don't want to screw up right? The first kiss is always the best kiss. However, kissing is an art that takes time and experience to master. This isn't an artform to take lightly.
The way you kiss can make it or break it with your lover. Can you really take a risk on your first kiss?
Consult our kissing counselors today and get tips for your first kiss!
How to Kiss
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posted by Brijesh @ 9:43 PM,
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To date is now free
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
For example, if you are an in love animal, you would find a place naturally to date the site which supports the in love animals. Your other option must go to a paid dating warehouse and pay them $40/month, or with another enormous figure, to select the in love animals on 1.000.000 other profiles. It is not a wise use of your money or time. The search engines dating use of these warehouses will find the dog of word in the profile of the person and then will indicate match of it to you good for you. And the majority of time the dog of word does not want to say that they love dogs. It could mean that they hate dogs, and the Search Engine just took the dog of word. Perhaps they seized that they love the dogs of film tank. Oh yeah, match of that large still. You obtain the information sent on false wire produced by a machine and the pocket of the owner of site your money. Well, you need do not accept this more my dating friends, a revolution of Internet is in hand. Use the search engines to your advantage. Go to your preferred engine and seize the passion of your life followed to date.
The Search Engine will produce of much of sites which you can draw profit from that is free to employ। Free is good. Several of these sites have the astonishing tools because they are created by owners of small company with higher qualifications of calculation, and they become paid for their hard work by the ADS financed on their sites. This means you wage nothing. And these sites are not refusing.
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Labels: Dating Proposal, Dating Relationship, Dating Rules, Dating Tips, Online Dating
posted by Brijesh @ 2:59 AM,
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To date online is Mort?
Monday, May 5, 2008

The Online dating websites developed appreciably in five last years. Some indicate that they reached its maximum phase, and can’t increase more. Others have a hope more optimistic to date on line. Many contractors feel that that the businesses dating on line do not look at as financially lucrative as they were two years ago. The specialists dating on line look at that it is right a phase of going beyond which is inherent in any businesses, and this tendency of going beyond will disappear in a certain hour.
Many businessmen realize that to date on line lost its gloss and call as average potentials to connect the potential dates, and, with any chance, Mr. /Miss well. The truth, however, is that with the proliferation of much of scams dating on line which has affected much of innocent choose, certain section of the people became increasingly disillusioned about dating on line.
A recent outline on dating online indicates that many people who were taken for victim by various scams and frauds dating on line never give to date online a second chance in their life. This tendency created a fear in the spirit of the people who want to join to online date. Information and the personnel report/ratio of indication of establishment with the full report by a medium on line started to resound strange with them again.
In the medium of this increasing fear towards finding the love by using online media, much of behemoths dating online such as Match.com began their operation against the scams dating on line and the scandals to ensure the environment sure and blocked for chooses to seek to date on line. They started to put pursuant to the tools for innovation in their sites to maintain the hustlers in their sites.
In spite of this negative perception towards the sites online dating in general, there is much chooses which are ready always to test their chance by finding their dates of prospect while dating on line. Consequently, to date on line did not die up to now.
Labels: Dating Proposal, Dating Relationship, Dating Rules, Dating Tips, Online Dating
posted by Brijesh @ 3:06 AM,
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Advanced Use of Technology on Free Internet Dating Sites
Thursday, January 3, 2008
Feature rich enhancements to free Internet dating
It is a known fact that online dating is a common way of meeting and keeping in touch people, either to foster friendships or love relationships. Today, technology is driving all aspects of human life and world of free Internet dating is one of them! Technology has played a huge part in increasing the popularity of free Internet dating, by lending this social interaction features like security, any-time availability, convenience and ease of use, etc.
Thanks to free Internet dating, virtually anyone can register their profile online and pursue looking for love over the World Wide Web. However, with so many websites to choose from and with many of them being free, it is difficult to decide which the best one for you is. Most of the websites offer similar features and provide similar services. Very few are different unless they cater to a specific kind of audience. But even so, there are many category specific sites to choose from as well.
One way free Internet dating sites are trying to differentiate themselves is by the use of technology. In providing new and exciting technology rich features to its users almost everyday, such websites are not just retaining their existing user-base but are also attracting new users from other sites because of their popularity! A lot many free Internet dating sites are mobile friendly. This means, users can access all or limited features of the website on their mobile handsets and continue their search for love and romance. Some of the mobile rich features include java enabled chat, messenger services, ability to access the website’s email, browsing for other users via search facility etc.
Some free Internet dating websites have gone a step further and allow users to register their mobile numbers with the website in a safe and secure manner. This is done so that websites can offer further technologically advanced features to their uses like giving them SMS alerts when a user sees their profile or sends them a private message etc. This helps the users keep in touch with their favorite dating site even when they are on the move and increase their chances of discovering their potential partner, early on. It is well to remember that these mobile numbers are not shared with other users.
Technology has even made it possible for free Internet dating sites to offer Internet to mobile voice communication to its users. If the websites have stored mobile numbers of users, it can forward voice chat alerts to specific users on their mobile while helping them maintain anonymity. This allows users to have conversations with potential romantic partners on their mobile phones, with some charge to the service provider.
Technology has really helped the free Internet dating revolution and taken it to the next level. More and more singles are enjoying the conveniences provided by these online dating services which are trying to make it easier for these busy singles to make time for love.
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posted by Brijesh @ 1:18 AM,
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Dating Rules For Men
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
1। Look your best. Get some decent clothes and shoes. Women always look at your shoes even if the last time you checked your Nike's out was 1996. Get clothes that fit you, suit you and are contemporary. Don't just buy one outfit, sort out your entire wardrobe. If you can't take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of her? Oh yes and buy a good well tailored suit, there is no excuse not to.
2। Get your hygiene and styling sorted out. Down to the barbers and sort out your hair, get a decent style if possible. If you don't have much hair still get down to the salon and either get your head shaved or something you can handle. Then it is off to the shops with you for good quality cologne and a grooming kit. Yes that means some expense. Men are so often criticized for smelling bad. Get into a regular showering routine and smell good always. Women appreciate it.
3। Sort out your job if you have one. Women want a man who has some ambition in life so coasting along as a skateboard instructor is generally not going to win you a real catch (by the way I love skateboarding!). Any job is better than none, but knuckle down and sort out some direction in your life. Change job if need be but at least try and look like you you have something of a career. If you have a manual job, at least have some plans to work for yourself. If you already do, then you are on the right track but know what you are about work wise and have some idea of your future because they will be asking questions about your prospects even if they pretend it isn't important. It is.
4। Get your knowledge levels up. Make sure you are up to date with current affairs, watch the news and read quality papers. Women do not appreciate stupidity and laziness is no excuse either. Current affairs are important in showing you know all about the world outside. If you travel a lot then this will help tremendously, if you don't have plans to travel, get some. Being able and willing to sort out vacations is essential in the grand scheme of things.
5। Do not extol the virtues of drinking in the bar 5 nights a week. This will never win any fair princess's heart. If you love your booze sort yourself out as there are other things in life too. Taking your lady for a drink is fine, but give them the impression that you live in there will get you absolutely nowhere - fast.
6। If you love your sport then fine,. If sport is a religion you may have a problem but everything by degrees guys. If you are serious about dating then ramming the subject of soccer, ball games or football down your date's throat will put them off in record time. Sport to the uninitiated is completely boring and shows not only sheep mentality to a woman but lack of thought, creativity or inspiration. Millions of girls love sport too and that is fine but don't make your passion into a one-sided one.
9। Never expect sex on a first date. If all you are after is sex you have come to the wrong place for reading material. If you are looking for the girl of your dreams there is nothing more sexy than a patient man. You are easily capable of waiting for the right woman so do it instead of thinking with your balls.
10। Sort out your educational knowledge of manners, courtesy and chivalry. A woman likes being treated well, particularly with respect. Lose the coarse language, the swear words, the rudeness and the laziness. Know how to eat in a top restaurant, know about fashion and jewelry and in particular flowers. Know how to hold a door open for a woman, let her go first and help her with her seat. Listen to what she says but have opinions of your own too. Show her respect and manners at every step and you should not go wrong.
11। Start listening and stop talking. Keep your date interested but don't turn into a one man entertainer. She will bore of you quickly because she wants to talk about herself too. Listen to things she tells you about her and remember them. Women love to chat so you need to learn to listen to her. Remembering things she told you will impress her by the bucketful. Fact.
12। Give up smoking now.
13। Lean to dance even if you have two left flat feet. Women love to dance and dancing is a physical contact sport (or can be). It is also romantic and sexy. You can be the world's worst dancer, I don't care. But if you stay seated when she is on that dance floor you may as well not exist. If you can join Salsa and dancing classes all the better. You don't need to be Travolta but you should have an idea of the basics of rhythm. Get started today.
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posted by Brijesh @ 7:09 AM,
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Dating Rules
Then one day we are unwillingly thrust back onto the dating scene only to find that we start behaving like 12 year olds. We call our dates too often, we are constantly available, we wear the wrong clothes, laugh at bad jokes like a fool, date the wrong people and generally get it all badly wrong. Then we get hurt or taken for a ride. Of course there will be some of you reading this that are the very epitome of dating sophistication, but the truth is, when you lose your heart you also lose your head. If you are going to date well then give these key do's and don'ts of dating some serious consideration. Dating rules are very important if you want to win and keep your perfect match.
Dating Rules - Do's
1. Do try to look your best and be punctual on dates
2. Do have fun when dating. I know the subject of Mr. or Miss Right is serious but dating is fun too so keep it that way.
3. Do flatter and compliment your date on the way they look and the things they wear. People tend to go to a lot of effort on a date (hopefully) so being told that you are looking good is a nice thing to hear.
4. Be interested and interesting. As the Pet Shop Boys once said, I was never bored because I was never being boring" or something similar. You get my drift.
5. Do tell someone if you are not interested in dating them again. Being lied to and hopes kept alive is an evil and malicious act (yes I mean it that strongly). If you don't want to see someone again then let them know that in the nicest possible way you can.
6. Do date the type of people you like and are attracted to, whatever your friends may say. Approval by your peers doesn't prove a thing.
7. Do stay positive even when dates don't end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find a prince. Along the way you will meet some nice people too and make some good contacts possibly.
8. Dating is a creative diversion, it requires concentration and energy so when you are dating keep some plans in the forefront of your mind and allow dating to take you to places you always wanted to visit within your own city.
9. Do make dating happen for yourself. People will not come and ring your bell from nowhere. Dating requires positive action so go out there and meet people, as many people as you can. Practice your chat and flirting on shop workers, bar attendants, anywhere and everywhere. Being nice to people is very sexy and great fun.
10. Do surround yourself with positive like minded people who are also dating. Think about the girls from Sex and the City and how they assist each other in dating and matters of romance. Negative friends who don't condone the dating scene or don't understand it will only help lower your own expectations and make you feel negative.
Dating Rules - Don'ts
1. Never call someone more than once a day unless they reply. Desperation and instability are huge turn offs.
2. Don't date the people who you usually find dump you. You may be generally attracted to bastards but that will not get you anywhere except hurt.
3. For men, never ever be late for a date, even if you have a very good reason. Women should never be kept waiting and should never have to seat themselves - ever.
4. Never tell lies to your date or pretend anything about your life that isn't true. If this is your perfect match for God's sake do not allow it to be ruined by some silly lie told early on.
5. Never be too available. Being available every night of the week and at the end of every whimsical phone call or possible rendezvous means you are making yourself uninteresting and a possible doormat. Be busy, be unavailable generally and be interesting.
6. Don't give away too much about yourself at the start. People love enigma and mystery. Revealing to your new date your inner most secrets on date number two will quickly ruin everything. A small bit at a time people.
7. Never check other people out when you are with your date. You may think you are subtle , your date will be heading for the door. Have the courtesy of concentrating solely on your date when you are with them.
8. Don't be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere.
9. Don't ignore your personal safety when dating. Have a cellular phone and keep it charged, tell your friends where you are going and be safe. Date at first in well known public places and never ever be pushed into anything you are not happy with.
10. Don't give out personal information like home phone numbers and addresses on a first date. Keep them until you are sure of your date and the future possibilities.
11. Don't have sex on a first date if you ever want to see your new date again. If you like them and are interested in them, sex on a first date will usually ruin everything. Its too much too soon and is not the way of romance. Believe me I am 100% certain on this.
12. Never date a married person. They will not leave their husbands or wives for you (except exceptionally rarely). Married dating is the sure fire way to misery, lies, deceit, lack of self respect and loss of romance. If you are married, separate first. If you are single, don't be a shoulder to cry on, you deserve far better.
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posted by Brijesh @ 7:01 AM,
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