First Date Mistakes
You get so excited about your first date that instead of making good impression on your date you just make a lot of mistakes. It's natural to worry about making a good impression on a date. So here are some common mistakes which people mostly makes on their first date it will help you to avoid mistakes.
Don't be Late First impression is last impression. If you reach late on your first date then you're really telling someone subconsciously that you don't really care about his or her time so try to be on time.
Don’t talks about yourself too much Avoid talking about yourself because it will let your date think that you are just full of yourself? Talk about something common between both of you.
Don't talk about your ex's It's natural for most people to bring up former relationships when they're on a first date, but you should limit the information you give to just the basics. Remember that the person you are about to meet isn't your ex. He or she is someone new that is taking time out of his or her busy day to meet with you so give them the full attention they deserve.
Avoid Sex Talk and Inappropriate topics The most common mistake which people usually make is talking about sex or something indecent. It will only serve to turn off your date. Keep the conversation to safer topics.
Talk about present You must enjoy the present situation so talk about your present plans. Remember the purpose of a first date is to find out if you like someone enough to see him or her again. That's it. You should not start thinking about future topics.
And in last if you make a mistake, just apologize to your date. If your date rejects you for your mistake, simply shrug it off. The right person will appreciate your goof ups as much as your perfect moments.
posted by Brijesh @ 11:04 PM,
- At October 15, 2008 at 5:17 AM, bailee said...
1. Talking TOO much about yourself--> trying too hard to "sell" yourself, completely missing out on the conversation at hand or what your date is saying.
2. Following the talking too much about oneself, is unloading all your baggage, giving TOO much irrelevant info.
3. (putting pressure on your date) Expecting sex, a kiss or even a second date!
These three can end a date QUICK! (at least for me)
This isn't a job interview, just go with the flow and be yourself. If its meant to be a one night stand, a booty call, or a relationship, it will be. Its about having fun!