Simple Guideposts To Build Up Successful Relationship
Saturday, December 13, 2008
How to build relationships in a way that brings out the best in all? In relationships we come across every sort of emotions - good or bad but few know how to manage the rough times. Here there are some simple laws that act as guideposts, helping us to prevent grave mistakes.
First law states that there is never a lack of relationships. The idea of the scarcity of love by too many person and persuading to cling to whoever comes their way leads them to get involved with the wrong person, or stay in a toxic relationship. It is important to realize that relationships are plentiful.
Second law states that it is important to know who you are and what you are looking for. It is of the utmost importance to respect yourself and sustain your own values, identity and goals because it is easy to get lost in a relationship, to become a pawn in someone else's world losing your own identity. A healthy relationship is recognition that both partners are equally valuable and share a common goal.
Third law states that be conscious and prudent while choosing your partner for a long term healthy relationship. Be aware of the repetition compulsion that arises due to the unconscious need of yours. Therefore it is suggested that you actively choose different places to go and make a point of choosing individuals who are different from the later.
Fourth law states that avoid being pretentious in your relationship. The plinth of any healthy and happy relationship is based on mutual respect and acceptance and open, honest, communication.
Fifth law states do not manipulate the person whom you love or care. It is important in a relationship that you accept the person as he/she is. If someone feels accepted, they can change themselves, if they want to make your job easy.
Sixth law states to differentiate between infatuation and real Love. Feeling happy, excited, possessive or dependent is simply infatuation, usually based upon fantasy that inevitably fade away with time and is always associated with struggle and pain whereas real love is not based simply upon feelings, which come and go, but on actions.
Seventh law states to focus on the positive points of others as well as yourself. The more we focus upon what is good in a person and let them know, the better result can be achieved.
The last law reveals that each relationship lasts for a certain time and in that period it is our duty to learn, from one another and when times come for departure thank the person and let goes without hesitation and this is the greatest art of relationships.
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posted by Brijesh @ 2:54 AM,
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Gentlemen and Dating
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
The majority of the people have their shares of the men who wanted something for something. Even with work, it became friendly with an owner who was to soon saying him that it could go very far with work, and then revealed to him with its door of apartment. She spoke to him, with the door, but did not let it enter. It became very hard nosed towards it then that but it still did not obtain at the first base. It transferred thereafter out of this position thus it should not have been subjected to him and its ‘comes-ons’.
Naturally the men want to have the sex all the times that and where they can, but that does not mean that the woman must agree. The various sizes or the shapes of the women do not make a man more or less ready, laid out and eager to have the sex. Whether you are well made or not, your type and personality of body attracts certain kinds of the types. If you already placed the rules of play, then should not have to you to worry about the man trying to obtain his share of your desserts after dining and a film.Labels: Dating Mistakes, Dating Proposal, Dating Relationship, Dating Rules, Love, Online Dating
posted by Brijesh @ 1:17 AM,
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First Date Mistakes
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
You get so excited about your first date that instead of making good impression on your date you just make a lot of mistakes. It's natural to worry about making a good impression on a date. So here are some common mistakes which people mostly makes on their first date it will help you to avoid mistakes.
Don't be Late First impression is last impression. If you reach late on your first date then you're really telling someone subconsciously that you don't really care about his or her time so try to be on time.
Don’t talks about yourself too much Avoid talking about yourself because it will let your date think that you are just full of yourself? Talk about something common between both of you.
Don't talk about your ex's It's natural for most people to bring up former relationships when they're on a first date, but you should limit the information you give to just the basics. Remember that the person you are about to meet isn't your ex. He or she is someone new that is taking time out of his or her busy day to meet with you so give them the full attention they deserve.
Avoid Sex Talk and Inappropriate topics The most common mistake which people usually make is talking about sex or something indecent. It will only serve to turn off your date. Keep the conversation to safer topics.
Talk about present You must enjoy the present situation so talk about your present plans. Remember the purpose of a first date is to find out if you like someone enough to see him or her again. That's it. You should not start thinking about future topics.
And in last if you make a mistake, just apologize to your date. If your date rejects you for your mistake, simply shrug it off. The right person will appreciate your goof ups as much as your perfect moments.
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posted by Brijesh @ 11:04 PM,
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Are you ready for your first kiss?
Monday, July 28, 2008
Or are you too scared? We all know the feeling of kissing that special someone for the first time.
It's nerve-racking and you don't want to screw up right? The first kiss is always the best kiss. However, kissing is an art that takes time and experience to master. This isn't an artform to take lightly.
The way you kiss can make it or break it with your lover. Can you really take a risk on your first kiss?
Consult our kissing counselors today and get tips for your first kiss!
How to Kiss
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posted by Brijesh @ 9:43 PM,
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The Worst Dating Mistakes Ever
Monday, July 21, 2008
To understand and not to take the people for whom they are and to see them in the place for which you really wanted that they were. Perhaps they ever arrived at you. You start to date somebody and begin it to you to think or it would be perfect so only it or their act had to him and life together, makes more money, eliminated leaning it, old relationships, parents and the list goes indefinitely. One of the worst errors of dating tries to change a person’s image into an image which adapts to your idea of the perfection. It well never finishes. Single needs you to be an agent of change. An associate who is been willing to change will be that to launch the change and to tell you the sectors which they function above. But this occurs once you are arranged in a relationship which is full with the love and the realization. The affectionate people because they are usually better.
So that your life are complete and happy, only owe is you in a relationship. It is among the worst errors of dating made in the majority of people who are unmarried. The simple hundreds of people seek far and with a relationship. It is a general feeling among chooses which believes that to achieve and a happy life is only possible in enclosure of a relationship. While waiting, she refuses happiness and the realization of the life while she escapes and far her slips. As a young person, learn how to like and create a life which is true and achieving, which is the only manner that you will be able to attract the love. Once inside an affectionate relationship, it will come to your realization that: although the love is very important, it isn't one article which will achieve you, you satisfy or achieve you.
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Taking a person incorrectly to be who they were beginning. It is one of the many errors of dating. Many people were in this one. To date starts on a high note and the money is not important then. But if the person later does not manage to join together or to have enough money you are very annoyed with them. You have downwards in a relationship, strongly invested with emotion in him only so that the person says to you that him or it is not interested by a relationship which makes, the person is only interested by the dating.
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posted by Brijesh @ 3:15 AM,
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To date is now free
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
For example, if you are an in love animal, you would find a place naturally to date the site which supports the in love animals. Your other option must go to a paid dating warehouse and pay them $40/month, or with another enormous figure, to select the in love animals on 1.000.000 other profiles. It is not a wise use of your money or time. The search engines dating use of these warehouses will find the dog of word in the profile of the person and then will indicate match of it to you good for you. And the majority of time the dog of word does not want to say that they love dogs. It could mean that they hate dogs, and the Search Engine just took the dog of word. Perhaps they seized that they love the dogs of film tank. Oh yeah, match of that large still. You obtain the information sent on false wire produced by a machine and the pocket of the owner of site your money. Well, you need do not accept this more my dating friends, a revolution of Internet is in hand. Use the search engines to your advantage. Go to your preferred engine and seize the passion of your life followed to date.
The Search Engine will produce of much of sites which you can draw profit from that is free to employ। Free is good. Several of these sites have the astonishing tools because they are created by owners of small company with higher qualifications of calculation, and they become paid for their hard work by the ADS financed on their sites. This means you wage nothing. And these sites are not refusing.
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posted by Brijesh @ 2:59 AM,
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To date online is Mort?
Monday, May 5, 2008

The Online dating websites developed appreciably in five last years. Some indicate that they reached its maximum phase, and can’t increase more. Others have a hope more optimistic to date on line. Many contractors feel that that the businesses dating on line do not look at as financially lucrative as they were two years ago. The specialists dating on line look at that it is right a phase of going beyond which is inherent in any businesses, and this tendency of going beyond will disappear in a certain hour.
Many businessmen realize that to date on line lost its gloss and call as average potentials to connect the potential dates, and, with any chance, Mr. /Miss well. The truth, however, is that with the proliferation of much of scams dating on line which has affected much of innocent choose, certain section of the people became increasingly disillusioned about dating on line.
A recent outline on dating online indicates that many people who were taken for victim by various scams and frauds dating on line never give to date online a second chance in their life. This tendency created a fear in the spirit of the people who want to join to online date. Information and the personnel report/ratio of indication of establishment with the full report by a medium on line started to resound strange with them again.
In the medium of this increasing fear towards finding the love by using online media, much of behemoths dating online such as Match.com began their operation against the scams dating on line and the scandals to ensure the environment sure and blocked for chooses to seek to date on line. They started to put pursuant to the tools for innovation in their sites to maintain the hustlers in their sites.
In spite of this negative perception towards the sites online dating in general, there is much chooses which are ready always to test their chance by finding their dates of prospect while dating on line. Consequently, to date on line did not die up to now.
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posted by Brijesh @ 3:06 AM,
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The One I Love Belongs to Somebody Else
Thursday, January 3, 2008
You want to build on the emotions you are feeling and so does the other person; sort of. Why sort of? For the simple reason, they are already involved in a relationship with someone other than you.
This is nothing new. No doubt you have heard all those songs about falling in love with another person's wife, husband, fiancé boyfriend, girlfriend or whatever. The reality is it happens everyday and in most instances, like yours, both parties go into it with their eyes wide open.
Again they tell you they are involved with another person। You hear and understand but you still hold out hope that something will change the situation। You tell the other person, that they must feel the same way; otherwise they would not be here. All of this maybe true but the best thing the both of you can is end it right here and now. You maybe the nicest person on the continent but in essence what you are doing is trying your best to break up a relationship just to satisfy yourself.
1. What if it was you?
It seems when people get involved in these situations they never stop to think what if the shoe was on the other foot. Let's say you are successful in breaking up their relationship and having the other person all to yourself. Fine but now they meet someone else who attracts them even more than you do. What then? You wind up in the same position as the first person. Karma can be quite nasty so if you do not want to be on the receiving end than it is best to let it go
2. Trust
The other person tells you they are engaged or seriously involved with someone else. So what are they doing there sitting next to you putting out feelers? Curb your emotions for a minute and think. Can you really trust someone who says they are in a committed relationship but is out looking for some action?
3. Wait
You both agree to pursue this further except that the other person cannot quite end their other relationship now. You give them the cornball line that, "you are willing to wait as long as it takes." The reality is nobody has that kind of time. Sure the two of you may get closer and more intimate but you are still the third wheel. As long as the other person remains in their relationship, you are sharing them. No matter how you feel now, this can get old very quickly.
4. The Explosion
It's bad enough sneaking around but now it gets back to the other person. No they are not going to do the "proper" thing and bow out gracefully. In fact they are ready to fight so as to keep the other person in the relationship but more importantly not to be made a fool of. Hurt pride is a powerful motivator. Are you willing to escalate the situation? Besides you really do not know what side of the fence the object of your affection will choose to stand on. You may wind up winning the battle and losing the war in a big way.
It is in your best interest to avoid getting involved with someone who is already in a committed relationship. There are plenty of people within your world who are unattached and looking to see if they can generate some chemistry with you. Maybe yes, maybe no. But involving yourself with someone who is already involved can take a major toll on everyone concerned especially you. The victory in most instances is not worth the price.
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posted by Brijesh @ 1:11 AM,
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